Welcome To Being Healthy, Sexy and Strong
25 Jun 2009 Leave a Comment
in Introduction, Uncategorized Tags: fitness, happiness, health, Nutrition, self esteem, welcome

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Life is about many things, most of all enjoying the time we are given. The best way to be able to enjoy that time is by keeping our bodies and minds in great condition. Health is about the whole person, not just separate pieces that exist in exclusion of one another. No, life is about making it all come together by understanding how all areas of our lives are connected and the synergy between them.
I lived my life too long in ignorance of this, and I am now dedicated to educating myself and teaching others the keys to a healthy, sexy and strong life. Happiness comes from within ourselves. We can build our esteem through pushing our bodies and minds to the limits, making them stretch for growth. There is nothing like setting a goal and making that accomplishment even if you might think it small. Passing on a chocolate dessert is a major accomplishment for me, so don’t think your goals must be some earth shattering achievement. If it makes you proud and makes you smile, you have done well.
There’s a saying that says if you shoot for the moon and miss, at least you’ll land among the stars. I believe this is so true, because sometimes we don’t get exactly what we set out for, but we always get what we need. Maybe you want to start a fitness program to look good naked, but a year down the road you developed great new healthy living habits, or vise verse. I can promise you that whatever reason you begin your health and fitness journey, many wonderful things are in store for you. I will do my best to provide you with information that will help you survive attacks of the regrets, laziness and defeat. I will provide you tools to get through your days in a smarter, healthier, happier way. Promise yourself time and patience, and devote time just for yourself each day. We can do this together.
Sexy
08 Jan 2010 4 Comments
in Motivation
I get a lot of comments about the word ‘sexy’ in my little motto. People will actually giggle when they see it. Do you think sexy is just
for Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt? It’s not only for the rich and famous. We all can be sexy, and you have to remember it comes from within. I know you’ve seen the man or woman who everyone flocks to, who lights up the room, who can turn heads by merely walking into a room, yet they may or may not be all that physically attractive. For some, just getting dressed for bed with the lights on in front of our partner is a challenge, while others have no problem parading around their home au naturel. Have you ever wondered how they do it or what it is about them that makes them so special?
I’ve had a few people tell me I may be able to make them strong and healthy, but sexy? Yeah, sexy! You can’t let that muffin top define who you are. People don’t say, “Oh look! There’s Sue, my friend with the nasty muffin top!” No, the only person saying that is you saying that to yourself. So, stop it. Stop doing it NOW! I’m a firm believer in the power on intention, and all that negative focus will only bring you more negative things. I love the following quote:
Focus
If you focus on resentment, you’ll create many more things to resent. When you focus on gratitude, you’ll bring many more things into your life for which to be thankful.
Focus on anger, and you’ll continue finding additional reasons to be angry. Focus on love, and the opportunities for experiencing love will greatly multiply.
Focus on life’s best possibilities, and you’ll move steadily in the direction of your dreams. Focus on the things you truly value, and they grow even more valuable.
Focus on what you are able to give, and you’ll greatly expand what you are able to have. Focus your energy, your attention, your interest and your passion on some particular thing, and you can make the impossible happen.
Where is your focus most consistently directed? That is where your life is most certainly headed.
By choosing your focus, you choose your lifestyle, the world around you, and your future. Focus on what is truly good and right and valuable for you, and you will be gloriously immersed in that goodness.
– Ralph Marston
There comes a time in our lives when we must turn that focus back on ourselves. For me, it was my divorce that propelled me into action. I confess my motivation for getting fit was borne primarily from sheer vanity, and getting healthy was a side effect. Now I can keep up with my 11 year old, help carry a freezer for a neighbor, bring in my own groceries and do pretty much anything I set my mind to. That is power! And that is sexy, too!
We all have a different view of what is sexy. It’s all realtive to your personal thoughts, so when I tell you I can help you feel sexy again, I mean it. If sexy means muscles or a few curves, or if it means carrying a 50 lb. bag of dog food up the stairs with a smile on your face, then you can have it! My motto comes from trying encompass what a fit and healthy lifestyle will bring for all of us. That is essentially where your motivation will be found, so think about what you define as healthy, sexy and strong. What it means to you won’t be the same for me, and that is why it’s so very important for you to look inside instead of what’s all around you.
Meltdown Progress, January 6, 2010
06 Jan 2010 Leave a Comment
in Exercise, Motivation, Nutrition, Uncategorized Tags: diet, Exercise, failure, focus, motivate, Nutrition, plan, progress
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My beginning weight: 1*8 (Sorry - still enough vanity in me to not tell the planet what I weigh! LOL!)
Loss: 3.4 lbs.
This is only a weight loss, mostly from carb bloat. It’s nothing to really get excited about except that I’m getting the bad stuff out of my system. Still a positive, but I’m realistic to know the hard part is still coming.
Yesterday I totally blew my plan by not getting in my workout AND by eating a vat of butter almond toffee left over from the holidays. My calorie intake was near 2100 when it was supposed to be around 1500.
What happened?
- I woke up late. It was just too damn cold to get out of bed, plus I had been on a 5 day lazy vacation. I overestimated my zeal for getting a jump-start on my day.
- I had not pre-packed my food for the day. I had my menu planned, but I didn’t get the food ready the night before. Since I was running late I just grabbed a bunch of stuff, threw it in my lunch bag and ran out the door. I got to the office and realized I had nothing for breakfast. Oh, I had chicken, salads, cukes and yogurt, but no oatmeal, eggs or whole grain toast.
- Because I was late to work, I didn’t take my lunch hour that I usually spend in the gym. Honestly, I could have, but I used the excuse that it was just too dang cold to go outside. I can’t get too upset, because my office is cold too, and I knew I’d freeze my hoohoo’s off in the gym. So, take it for what it’s worth: an excuse or a smart decision. Either way, I moved that workout from Tuesday to Saturday in my calendar.
- I didn’t have anything to satiate my sweet tooth. This is my number one disaster waiting to happen. It was cold, I was tired, so when I finally got home and into my warm comfy clothes, I just brought the can to sit with me like my best friend in front of the TV. This all would have been avoided had I just thrown the rest out on Saturday.
- One positive is I didn’t continuously graze or keep eating those awful carbs. I had one small slice of cheese pizza and some honeydew melon. I drank water – lots of it. I had to focus on my goal and think of how I hate how tight my clothes are now. I asked myself if that dinner roll would be worth the added calories and fat on my butt. I went and looked at my motivation picture, thought how beautiful she is, and went to bed.
So there you have it. Not all personal trainers have things so under control, perfect weight, perfect anything. Some of us are still human like you. I don’t know what your personal motivation is, but it is yours and you need to hold on to that when things get rough. The biggest thing is getting right back up and moving forward. It’s never too late, and you will only fail if you quit trying.
Negative Emotions Outweigh Intent To Exercise At Health Clubs
04 Jan 2010 Leave a Comment
in Exercise, Motivation Tags: club, Exercise, fitness, gym, motivaation, overweight
Negative Emotions Outweigh Intent To Exercise At Health Clubs.
If you aren’t comfortable in a health club, remember that workouts can be done anywhere. Consider my on-line training as well the fact I can come to you! Remember – you just have to take the first step.
Happy New Year!
03 Jan 2010 Leave a Comment
in Motivation Tags: goals, Motivation, plan
I wish all my friends, family and clients a very happy and healthy New Year!!!
We are now a few days into the new year, and I hope everyone is already experiencing success. How are your goals coming along? Have you already had to make adjustments? Had a do-over yet? Just remember it doesnt matter how many times you fall down as long as you keep getting back up.
I already experienced a problem last night with my nutrition and ate some toffee a friend had given me. So, today I went to the grocery store to rectify my sweet tooth by buying some sugar-free chocolate pudding. YUM! I have cooked some chicken, made my pudding and divided it into individual servings, and have everything ready for eating healthy. Tomorrow starts my excercise plan, and I’m looking forward to sweating it out in the gym. Most everyone heads back to work tomorrow, so make sure if you are one of them that you have your weekly plan written down, and refer to it a couple of times a day. Those who fail to plan, plan to fail.
Meltdown Countdown Progress
30 Dec 2009 6 Comments
in Exercise, General Health, Motivation, Nutrition
Over the last few days I’ve been getting things in order ready to kick off my personal meltdown. I’m mostly going back to basics with the more scientific approaches to determining caloric intake and expenditure.
- I have been tracking my food , even the cheats. I use and highly recommend the Diet and Exercise Diary by Hinkler Books. (I have an extra one at home if anyone would like it.) It’s the most comprehensive journal I’ve ever found where you can track yearly, monthly and daily goals all in one place. You also can track your diet and nutrition in a more detailed format. I love this journal! Anyway, I notice that I still have my issue with late evening carb cravings and will need ot find a way to avoid it.
- I made it to the gym yesterday for a nice strength workout, and am sore today! I felt like a weak girly girl, but I know tha muscle has memory and it will be no time before I’m back to feeling stronger.
- I decided on 2 last big cheats: a yummy hamburger and fries and something from Bruster’s!
I may eat fast food only several times a year, and even then I try to stay in bounds. This is my annual HUGE burger fest, so i like to make sure I get something good. To show you how important this meal is to me, a couple of years ago my son and I had been Christmas shopping and stopped to get my annual burger on the way home. I went to unlock my front door and dropped a bag with a glass candle in it. The candle shattered, and for some stupid reason I stuck my hand in the bag and sliced open my thumb wide open right above the inside joint. Not to gross you out, but there was some serious heavy bleeding! I was so determined to eat and enjoy my hamburger, though, that I wrapped my hand in a towel, and sat and savored my burger although it was blood red clear I really need to get to the emergency room ASAP, then drove a stick shift to get stitches AFTER I had eaten. - I’m still thinking about my rewards system. I mostly use food as a reward, but I’m not sure I want to take that route this time. One year I promised myself a bikini from Victoria’s Secret and earned it!
Thanks for following along! I appreciate everyone’s support and hope that you find this helpful and inspirational.
Countdown to Meltdown
28 Dec 2009 Leave a Comment
in Exercise, General Health, Motivation, Nutrition Tags: body fat, diet, fat loss, goal setting, goals, measurements, meltdown, Nutrition, planning, statistics, weigh loss
Current Goals
Meltdown start date: January 2, 2010
Meltdown duration: 8 weeks
Meltdown end date: February 28, 2010
♥ Take stats: body fat, measurements, weight on Jan 2.
- Weight
- Body Fat
- WHR
- BMI
- Chest
- Waist
- Hips
- Thighs
√ Determine my daily caloric intake.
- Maintenance kcal = 1853/day minus 371 kcal/day reduction = 1482 kcal per day for weight loss
- 2,597 kcal reduction/week = almost 1 pound loss per week
√ Plan my workout schedule and calories to be burned weekly/daily.
- Must burn approximately 530 kcal/workout 6 days a week = 3,180 kcal/week = 1 pound loss per week.
♥ Buy a new HR monitor with a chest strap.
♥ Plan my meals, cheats, and diet busting occasions, and cook my food weekly.
♥ Keep a daily food and exercise journal, stay faithful to it even listing cheats.
♥ Lose 13 pounds.
♥ Achieve 20% or less body fat.
Plan For This Week
√ Cook food.
√ Plan workouts.
- Plan meals.
- Take stats on Saturday morning.
- Order HR watch/strap.
I just want you to notice how I have made adjustments to my goals, and this is to be expected as you fine tune your own. I’ve recently found a nice little goal-setting blog, Goal Setting Worksheet, that I feel gives me just enough to get my plans in order. The numbers I have for calories to eat and burn now may change by Saturday morning when I officially begin my meltdown, but at least I have a good idea of where I need to go. Once the meltdown gets underway, then I will need to make adjusments along the way. Bookmark my blog to watch my progress, and if you would like to start your own meltdown please feel free to contact me at memre@fitnesssavant.com.
Setting Goals, Not Resolutions
27 Dec 2009 Leave a Comment
in Exercise, Motivation, Nutrition Tags: fat loss, gols, new years resolution, Nutrition, planning, weight loss
My goal for the first part of the year is to lose fat, so I thought I’d keep my blog like I keep a diary to let my friends experience this journey with me. This past year was a the worst for me fitness wise. I have gained fat due to my finding enough excuses to avoid the gym. THis is not acceptable to me, so I’m getting back to basics. Here is my To Do list that will be done by January 1:
- Take stats: body fat, measurements, weight.
- Determine my daily caloric intake.
- Plan my workout schedule and calories to be burned weekly/daily.
- Buy a new HR monitor with a chest strap.
- Cook my food weekly on Sundays.
Once I have my stats done I will know the precise amount of weight/fat I need to lose to set a goal date. I will post that when I have them. The official start date of my personal meltdown is January 2.
13 Ways to Fight Sugar Cravings
18 Dec 2009 Leave a Comment
in General Health, Nutrition Tags: craving, fat loss, Nutrition, sugar, weight loss
I don’t know about you, but I so need these hints!
Beat the Holiday Blues
30 Nov 2009 2 Comments
in General Health Tags: avoid, beat, blues, depression, holiday
With the holiday season upon us, and knowing how I can get, I wanted change gears for a minute with this article. Sadness and depression can wreak havoc on your life, and it starts what nearly becomes a never-ending cycle: you get busy, forget to take care of yourself, your health wanes, then you become too tired to care. Blah. Hope this article helps some.

